Are you really just looking for a PLATONIC relationship m4w
Isnt there at least 1 woman, who wants nothing more than local older ladies searching casual encounter italian dating sites a male friend?
Not sex.
Not Money.
No ulterior motives.
Not looking to get married.
Just to talk, compare days, etc.
Maybe go to the new water park with.
Cook over a fire pit.
Enjoy a soothing hot tub session.
Swim in my new pool when it arrives (any day now)
Watch the hummingbirds and other birds around my nature center.
Listen to bubbling water in my man made pond.
Watch how different birds like to play in the water of the 2 ponds and stream
Just some simple, innocent company?
TIRED OF GAMES!!
Hello:
Decided to try this, as I haven't had much luck anywhere else really. I am a friendly is fine, as I occasionally drink, as long as it doesnt get outta hand. Someone who likes kids (obviously!) and likes stayin in but going out sometimes as well. I love anything outdoors, movies, shopping, scrapbooking, BBQs, the lake, camping, dancing, going out sometimes, being with friends and family, love to write, and just be creative. Love helping people and being the best mom and sister I can be. I love animals and have 2 black n white calico cats and a chihuahua. Would like someone with a job, car and a place, as I'm not a sugar mama, and dont plan on being one!! thanks...So if your honest, not fake, caring, dont play games, mature, spontaneous, and laid back....message me and we'll go from there....Local please. And put "real" in the subject !!! thanks Jeannie
"What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"
I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out. What happened to all the nice guys? The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how the (other) guy that you were "doing" treated you. At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basiy be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease. Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?" Well, once again, you did. You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without , in kind, with intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an a-hole than he ever wanted to be. Fact is, now, he's probably getting some, and in a way, your ultimate of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them local older ladies searching casual encounter italian dating sites and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that. So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do: 1.) Build a time machine. 2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your rear end. 3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and ahold of it. I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you. If you were years younger. So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've did yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the crap and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't want you now. If you want another chance at someone great to be with, contact me. But, the nice guy is gone. Sincerely, A Recovering S W Nice Guy 44
Drink this evening? m4w
Hello
I'm new in town and would like local older ladies searching casual encounter italian dating sites to meet new people
I'm 29 years old, 6ft tall, asian. Into fitness, travel, sports and the arts. Go to the gym 3-4 times a week as well as playing sports. Travelled thoughtout Asia, Europe and Australia.
I'm based in the Inner Mission area, so if you have no plans and would like to meet someone new and have some decent conversation then drop me a line.
No weirdos or stalkers please.
Looking for a B.F.--Are You Him?
I am single, never married, no , and no crazy exes. I am physiy fit, sane, and very attractive. I work hard and am a professional. I do not play , and am not interested in playing them. If you are 36-50, tall, serious about finding your match, and not on here because you are shopping for used cars, sex, or anything in between, write to me. You MUST be prepared to produce a (which will be reciprocated). NO smokers, druggies, married/separated or non-single guys.