ISO a friend & more
Be my secret, be my joy, be the thought that puts a smile on my face.
Okay here's the deal up front, I'm a married man in search of a secret lover and friend. I'm 39, white, in shape, professional, VERY neat and clean cut looking, light drinker and use no drugs, very sexual and love to play. I would prefer that you also be married or at least in a committed relationship (although that's not a deal breaker) I think it would work out best if we were both kind of in the same situation.
Now I'm not looking to change my situation at home right now and you shouldn't be either. I'm not looking for the love of my life or soul mate and leave my wife for nor am I looking for a woman that wants to be rescued from the relationship she is now in. This would be best for a woman that is happy in the relationship she is now in but is just looking for a little bit of adventure and spice to add to what she already has at home.
I don't want this to be endless emails where we bitch about our spouses, if you want that you should probably get a therapist or a counselor. That's what they are there for. I want this to be about us, I want this to be my "happy place", to but a smile on my face when I think us. So no matter what's going on in my day to day bullshit I have us to think about, waiting for our next encounter and thinking about our past ones.
I'm pretty fit and in shape (athletic build) and if you are to that's great, but if you're not that's okay. Although I don't think I'd be attracted to a woman that's real heavy and just let themselves go, but I don't mind a woman with curves and a little meat on them. As long as you do the best you can with what you got that's fine by me. Attitude and spirit make up for a lot in my book.
TIME - You would have to be able to meet and whatnot weekday mornings, because that's the time I'd have free. Now you don't have to have every day free but would have to be able to meet from time to time then. This wouldn't be an everyday thing, I know when both have our lives going on and other relationships that we need to deal with. We might meet 3 times one week or we might not meet for 3 weeks. We work with the time we have and as our schedules permit.
Edit: Please be sane and a somewhat "normal" person, I don't need a whole lot of extra drama, I get enough of that in my current relationship.
Okay that's pretty much it. If interested get local older ladies searching casual encounter free sexs back to me and put "secret" in the subject line so I can filter out the spam. Then we can trade pictures and chat and see if we think were a match and on the same page with what we're looking for.